Friday 10 October 2014

The Constant Balancing Act...

Hey all,

I've discussed on this blog before my belief in the universal constant balancing act; some call it ying and yang. (I think me being a child of hippies maybe sinking in lol!) But I didn't really understand its power until recently.

I thought that big chunks of bad are balanced by an equal amount of good, but then I realised that everything has its own opposite. What may seem to be really bad at the time, may produce the best times of your life. There are many clichés which many of us are too quick to dismiss, but they are so true! Seriously, my recent job rejection has turned into the opportunity for me to spend more time on things that I am passionate about. It's that one door closes one... I have laughed at that in the moments of despair, but I don't think I am going to do that anymore.

From now on I want to focus on the positives. It is so much easier to look at the negatives when you feel rejected or dejected, but it is just not healthy. It is so much better to start looking for the good in the opportunities life brings you.

A side note, the universal balancing act is sometimes very much like the old metallic scales in my experience. It is not; a bad things has happened BAM good thing, it can be though! However, sometimes you get a build up of credit before the universe gives you back what you are owed. It can take years. It helps if you treat life with kindness and care, I think karma gives you the goodness back for that too.

I hope this post is helpful to you guys who are finding yourself in a period of bad times, please remember to look for the good as trust me it is in there. You will find it in your friends and family if nothing else, and I am always here too!

As always lots of luv,
Amber xx♥

Wednesday 1 October 2014

Don't let life defeat you...

When it is all getting too tough,
When it tries to break you up,
Stand tall and be proud,
Aim your dreams higher than the clouds. 

They can't stop you,
If you stay strong,
You have to persevere,
You will still do stuff wrong. 

It's not something that should cause your demise,
You can weather any tide,
It may just take some time,
But you will walk in the sunshine.

Hope you are well guys, I'm here if you need me.

Luv,
Amber xx♥️